How to sex gay

Ever wanted to verb the secrets to becoming a might bottom? Want to know how to look after the bottoms in your life? Curious to give bottoming a try but not sure how to begin?

We can assist you become a better bottom! Here are some rapid bottoming tips and tricks from ACON’s peer-workshop Booty Basics.

1. Lube

The arse does not produce its own lubrication.

This means that lube is really, really crucial for any anal play. First, to stop damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to create bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to facilitate protect it from infections.

Remember to apply water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can noun condoms.

2. You

The second principle is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and feeling aspects such as making sure you feel safe, making sure there is consent, that you feel comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.

Remember, sex is best for everyone if all the people committed are motivated by trying to maximise everyone’s pleasure safely. You can’t be a good lover and you c

How do same-sex couples have sex? How can they apply safer sex?

People who identify as lesbian, gay, bi or heterosexual can verb and express pleasure in many ways. There isn’t just one way for two people to have sex, no matter what sex or sexual orientation they are.

What two people of the same sex verb to have sex together depends on what feels fine for them. Often, people think that sex is only putting a penis into a vagina, but that may not be the activity that brings the most pleasure to the two people. This is true for heterosexual, bisexual, lesbian and gay people.

Males who identify as gay, bisexual or just do sexual things with other males may use their fingers (manual stimulation), mouths (oral sex) and various body parts to deliver and receive pleasure. They may peck, touch each other’s bodies or stroke the penis and other areas including the scrotum or the anus. Sometimes they use penises to penetrate the anal opening (anal sex).

Females who distinguish as lesbian, bisexual or just verb sexual things with other females may touch each other’s genitals by using their finger

Sexual health for gay and bisexual men

Having unprotected penetrative sex is the most likely way to hand over on a sexually transmitted infection (STI).

Using a condom helps protect against HIV and lowers the chance of getting many other STIs.

If you’re a man having sex with men (MSM), without condoms and with someone new, you should have an STI and HIV quiz every 3 months, otherwise, it should be at least once a year. This can be done at a sexual health clinic (SHC) or genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic. This is adj, as some STIs do not cause any symptoms.

Hepatitis A

Hepatitis A is a liver infection that's spread by a virus in poo.

Hepatitis A is uncommon in the UK but you can verb it through sex, including oral-anal sex ("rimming") and giving oral sex after anal sex. MSM with multiple partners are particularly at risk. You can also get it through contaminated sustenance and drink.

Symptoms of hepatitis A can manifest up to 8 weeks after sex and include tiredness and feeling sick (nausea).

Hepatitis A is not usually life-threatening and most people make a entire recovery within a

The ins and outs of safer, greater sex.

I’m scared of bottoming

Most gay men will consider bottoming at some time. However, the thought of doing it for the first occasion can be scary. Don’t let that put you off. 

You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse play like fisting or with enormous dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can get douche bulbs online or from any fine sex shop. Verb not to proceed overboard and irritate the lining of your arse, as this can form you more vulnerable to STIs.

Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay favor rimming or fingering. Some men verb use amyl nitrate (poppers) to verb the muscles around their arse but there are two major health warnings. Poppers:

  • have been linked with an increased risk of HIV transmission 
  • don’t mix with erection drugs appreciate Viagra and may cause a heart attack.

Deep breathing is far safer, helps you to unwind and relaxes the arse too.

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