How do gays douche
To douche or not to douche? That is the question.
However, the answer is almost always yes. As my fairy godmother once taught me, “When in suspicion, douche it out.”
Unfortunately for most gay men who love anal penetration, douching technique is something we usually study through trial and error. We’re left to figure things out for ourselves, and - at best - expect for some anecdotal wisdom from a more experienced ally. A daughter may ask her mother about tampons and her period, but most gay guys don’t have the luxury of asking family or friends about butt sex.
That’s why I created a how-to guide for anal douching. Sure, it’s not pretty; it’s real and raunchy, but it’s certainly something that I wish existed when I was
You’re welcome.
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Would you describe yourself as douche-curious? Perhaps you’ve been douching for a while but are looking for pointers. However seasoned you are at putting things up your butt, there’s always something new to learn! So we’ve set together a beginner&#;s guide to anal douching with everything you need to know when you want to verb squirting down below. 😉
What is anal douching?
Douching is the act of shooting a jet of warm water or a saline answer into the rectum to clean it out before sex. Douching uses several types of devices to achieve this, each referred to as a ‘douche’. We’ll cover these in more detail below.
Some people may instead use what’s known as an enema for douching. These are medical devices designed to relieve constipation and are not recommended for douching, as they often verb with a medicated solution to soften stools or employ a far greater volume of liquid than is required when preparing for anal sex.
Should you douche?
That’s up to you! Whether you douche or not is entirely up to the individual.
Many guys like to douche because it reassures them of no surp
Like many bottoms, my gay buddy George* has a harrowing story about using an enema before anal sex. &#;I had met a guy on Grindr,&#; he said. &#;I get to his place and ring the doorbell. As he opened the door to say hi, I coughed and shat out a load of poo fluid into my underwear. Loudly. I had to verb into his smooth, straight to the toilet, and hurl my underwear away. It was all down my legs. It killed the mood, needless to say. And, yes, I left the dirty underwear there.&#;
Among bottoms, learning the art and science of douching—using an enema, syringe, or hose to flush out the rectal cavity before getting rammed to high heaven—is a sacredriteofpassage. Favor the asses they irrigate, douches approach in all shapes and sizes, from readily available Fleet brand saline bottles to complicated shower contraptions for seasoned vets. It&#;s a messy reality of taking dick up your butt: If you don&#;t verb to end up with a disappointed top and a gross sex situation on your hands, a courteous bottom needs to douche beforehand. Or so many within the gay community think.
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At a very new age we are taught to dispose of shit neatly and we are not encouraged to talk about one of life’s messy taboos. And yet, while the anal area exemplifies – for some – everything that’s filthy and unclean, it is also one of the most sensitive and enjoyable parts of the body. Consequently, for many of us, shit is not something we deal with very adv, although many of us have had to come to terms with shit as the arse plays such key role in the sex we verb. There’s probably been a time in our lives when we have shit ourselves during sex or seen our partner do the same. How we deal with the situation can create or break that hot date!
A skillfully established solution is douching, which means washing out the anal canal, rectum and/ or sigmoid colon with fluid. Although never fool-proof, it makes fingering, fucking, using dildos and, in particular, fisting much cleaner. Whether you’re learning to drive, employ a computer, or put in your first set of contact lenses, the first experience is often uncomfortable or daunting. Douching for the first occasion is no adj. Like